Ace in the Wild: An Asexual Perspective of Hot Topics & Events

AiTW Episode 8 - Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus: A Modern Analysis

I read this book several years back and it has been highly recommended by some of my friends and family. It was a huge success for its time, but does its advice on gender dynamics and relationship success still hold true in the present? Come explore this classic with me in this episode! I also cover issues many men have with forming relationships that are still relevant today and why it might have lead to record high divorce rates back in the 90's; the same era this book was published.

Aitw Episode 7 - An Ace Analysis of Nikola Tesla: The Electric Enigma

I've decided to return to an Ace topic again with this episode. Nikola Tesla is often portrayed as the "Poster Child" of historic aces and lauded by the MGTOW and Incel communicates as a master of restraint and discipline. However, there is conflicting evidence on whether Tesla was in fact asexual or whether he was simply a man obsessed with his work and influenced by his upbringing, being the son of a priest in a conservative culture. I discuss his history, character, and his sexuality or lack thereof in this episode. I also touch on a few of his relationships and the time frame known as the "Gilded Age" that he was active in.

Aitw Episode 6 - Alcoholism and the Story of Brian Risso/Onlyusemeblade: The Man who Inspired me to Quit

I'm going down another bit of a rabbit hole here but I have thoughts about this individual and also about my own path to sobriety and a better life. Brian Risso/Onlyusemeblade was a popular game streamer who became on the the foremost entertainers of his day due to his unusual playing style and unique and funny personality. Unfortunately, he had a dark secret that other would exploit for cheap thrills and would eventually lead to his downfall; alcoholism. I also reference my own struggles.

Aitw - Episode 5: Online Dating & Dating Apps

This episode focuses on my experiences with two popular dating apps; Bumble and Tinder. I discuss what lead me to use these apps and what I discovered as a result of a few notable successes. The latter half of the video focuses on the experiences of others in the ace community, which varies greatly based on gender, culture, and even race. I also go on a few tangents about online spaces in general.

Aitw - Episode 4: Autism and Asexuality

In this episode I explore if there is a link between autism (ASD) and asexuality. Based on some characters in the media and pervasive stereotypes, I've noticed that ASD and lack of sexual interest and desire are often paired. I myself have several traits that are in line with ASD, and I discuss some issues that I've had in the past and present and how our society can be intolerant about neurodiversity. I also discuss how said intolerance can lead to a lonely existence for many people on the ASD.

Aitw - Episode 3: An Ace Analysis of Todd Chavez from Bojack Horseman

This episode revolves around the lovable Todd Chavez, a character on one of the most popular animated shows of all time - Bojack Horseman. I explore his history on the show and how he evolves from a simple side character and comic relief to his roommate and best friend, the tragic & depressed Bojack, to a paragon of Asexual representation in the media.

AitW - Episode 2: Chris Chan, a Cautionary Tale of Entitlement, Naiveté & Poor Parenting

In this episode I focus on the early life and development of Christian Weston Chandler (Chris Chan) from a young, quiet autistic child into his early adulthood and his unfortunate contact with the internet which would eventually consume and lead him down a dark path. I explore what made him the way he is and whether he is a victim, villain, or a bit of both.

Ace in the Wild - Episode 1: Incels, MGTOW, and the Red Pill

In this first episode I focus on my experiences with male-dominated spaces in my mid 20's (2014-2016) and how I began to see them for what they were. I discuss the MGTOW community (Men going their own way) I and the "red pill" and what initially drew me to these ideas. I also discuss Incels (involuntarily celibate men) and my first interactions with them.

Ace in the Wild: Origins & Introductions

In this final intro episode I go from my childhood to present, highlight the important parts of my development and my struggles being a poorly socialized only child with gender dysphoria. My realizations about my sexuality really started to present themselves in my early teens; In my late teens I realized I was on the Asexual spectrum but was told that it "didn't exist." 

Ace in the Wild: Ace Meets World (of Podcasting)

Teaser episode of what I will be discussing. Also, podcast editing and not saying "um" every other word is rather challenging so bear with me :)